"Over time, the business of life creeps in and even the most deeply committed couples can feel like they're living parallel lives rather than enjoying life together. Their once happily-ever-after can quickly turn into an endless grind of work, chores, errands and carpool. And the pull of social media becomes more compelling than engaging with one's spouse. In this book, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley offer practical ways to rekindle the passionate, intimate, heart-to-heart spark of connection between husbands and wives."
"Pursue the Marriage You've Always DesiredAs a wife, you have an incredible amount of influence in your husband's life. He needs things only you can supply (not just sex!)—and some simple choices on your part can bring about big changes in your husband's heart. Discover how you can... ·build his self-esteem by giving him affirmation he won't receive from his friends ·encourage him to grow by noticing what he does right—not what he does wrong ·help him bounce back from mistakes by providing the space and support he needsAs you learn how to show your husband you love him in everyday ways, you'll make room in your marriage for deeper connection and lasting satisfaction. The joy you used to dream of finding someday can be yours today as you invest in a happy marriage!"
"Want a marriage filled with passion and adventure? Capture the whimsical sense of excitement and romance you shared at the very start!
Learn to navigate life's twists and turns to find God's best for your marriage with the help of Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley. They'll lead you and your spouse to discover "true love" as described by God in the Bible. With candor and grace, these beloved marriage experts share the secrets of a strong marriage that yield a lifetime of adventurous and cray-zee love.
These relationship-renewing secrets will strengthen your marriage at its very core:
- Appreciate your "sole" mate and, in the process, discover your "soul" mate.
- Understand that marriage is a battle - but it's a battle against selfishness, not your spouse.
- Quit striving to get your spouse to love you... and learn to strive to love your spouse better.
- Realize that in marriage, the "small stuff" is often the "big stuff" and that dealing with tiny details can net big returns.
- Avoid "chore wars" and instead join forces to establish a home with respect and reciprocity.
- View sex as a delightful "dance" in which you put the needs and interests of your spouse ahead of your own."
