Shortlisted for the Costa Biography Award 2010.

Costa Book Awards 2010 Judges' comment: "A delightful and wholly unsentimental memoir that balances beautifully the twin responses of tears and laughter."

Featured on The Book Show on Sky Arts on 4 November 2010.

Shifting from personal recollection to documentary sources, family anecdotes to historical records, Michael Frayn’s autobiographical record is a superb look at family relationships and growing up. His father, the central pivot of the book, is wonderfully observed and we are given a portrait of a man who by force of personality, ability and drive journeyed far from the poverty that marked his early life. Written at the insistence of his own children, Michael Frayn’s book is also a gift to his father, Tom Frayn, a seemingly ordinary man in the crowd, made extraordinary by this memoir. Has to be one of my books of the year.
 
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Synopsis

'An unknown place'. This was what Michael Frayn's children called the shadowy landscape of the past from which their family had emerged. In this book, he sets out to rediscover that lost land before all trace of it finally disappears beyond recall. As he tries to see it through the eyes his parents and the others who shaped his life, he comes to realise how little he ever knew or understood about them. This is above all the story of his father, the quick-witted boy from a poor and struggling family, who overcame so many disadvantages and shouldered so many burdens to make a go of his life; who found happiness, had it snatched away from him in a single instant, and in the end, after many difficulties, perhaps found it again. Father and son were in some odd ways ridiculously alike, in others ridiculously different; and the journey back down the corridors of time is sometimes comic, sometimes painful, as Michael Frayn comes to see how much he has inherited from his father - and makes one or two surprising discoveries about both of them along the way...

About the Author

Michael Frayn was born in London in 1933 and began his career as a journalist on the Guardian and the Observer. His novels include Towards the End of the Morning, and A Landing on the Sun. Headlong (1999) was shortlisted for the Booker Prize, while his most recent novel, Spies (2002), won the Whitbread Novel Award. His fifteen plays range from Noises Off to Copenhagen and most recently Afterlife. He is married to the writer Claire Tomalin. More books by this author Author 'Like for Like' recommendation