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All the Tw*ts I Met Along the Way

by Carolyn Hobdey

Biography / Autobiography Humorous and Funny Books Lifestyle and Health Mind & Body - books to help you be better

LoveReading View on All the Tw*ts I Met Along the Way

Shot-through with the kind of humour suggested by its title, All The Tw*ts I Met Along The Way is an engaging, chatty, no-holds-barred account of a woman’s experience of life’s challenges, to put it mildly. When it comes to suffering bad boyfriends, less-than-satisfactory sex, coercive partners and passionless marriage, Carolyn Hobdey has been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. She’s written the book on it too, and what blast of a book it is. Here she bares her soul with refreshing honesty, much like a witty best friend telling it like it is over a bottle of wine. 

While Carolyn has a flair for in-your-face, funny writing, the book is underpinned by a sense of resilience and hope; by a strong and vital thread about never blaming yourself for the flaws, misdemeanours and outright abominable behaviours of others. While this deeply personal memoir will no doubt resonate with the many, many women who’ve experienced similar, many men could learn plenty from it too, for it exposes how not to treat women, with razor-sharp wit to boot.

Joanne Owen

All the Tw*ts I Met Along the Way Synopsis

What happens when you so deeply believe something you were told as a child that it becomes the driving force behind almost every thought, feeling and action for the rest of your life – until you decide to take complete control and change your life entirely? For decades, Carolyn Hobdey believed she was ‘trouble’ and if she wasn’t ‘nicer’ she’d spend her days alone and unloved.  

All The Tw*ts I Met Along The Way tells Carolyn’s tales of crappy boyfriends, sickening sexual encounters, manipulative men, love triangles, unsupportive and unsupported medical diagnoses… and that’s just in the first few pages. From porn-addicted boyfriends who go from fitties to owners of ‘dad bods,’ to car crashes and boob jobs. Marriage to a lover who became more like a brother (and who came out as gay after their 15 year relationship) and later a relationship with a man and his ‘ready-made family’ that exposes a damaging case of coercive control and narcissism. Carolyn’s story exposes the unrelenting pull of the child-parent relationship – even in adulthood – and all the messiness, self-esteem issues and confusion that can cause. As she writes, “I didn’t want to be the trouble-maker, the one to cause my parents concern, anymore.”

All the Tw*ts I Met Along the Way Reader Reviews

In addition to our Lovereading expert opinion some of our Reader Review Panel were also lucky enough to read and review this title. You can click here to read the full reviews.

I really felt as thought I could relate to this book, it feels refreshing for women to talk about their problems especially when it is regards to their health. Full review

Hannah Symonds

An incredibly, hard hitting book which makes you laugh and cry almost simultaneously. Full review

Rachael Anderson

An honest account of the highs and lows encountered in relationships and one woman's struggle to overcome adversity. Full review


A brave account from the author of the shockingly terrible dates and relationships she has endured through her life. So many women will identify with this memoir. Full review

Adrienne Kinsella

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ISBN: 978913623333
Publication date: 18/01/2021
Publisher: Filament Publishing
Format: Paperback

Book Information

ISBN: 978913623333
Publication date: 18th January 2021
Author: Carolyn Hobdey
Publisher: Filament Publishing
Format: Paperback
Genres: Biography / Autobiography, Humour, Lifestyle & Health, Mind & Body,

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