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Single, Again, and Again, and Again ... What Do You Do When Life Doesn't Go to Plan?

by Louisa Pateman

Biography / Autobiography

LoveReading View on Single, Again, and Again, and Again ... What Do You Do When Life Doesn't Go to Plan?

In 'Single, Again, and Again, and Again...What Do You Do When Life Doesn't Go to Plan' Louisa Pateman eloquently describes her experiences in the dating jungle of the 90s and noughties and goes on, when her 'happy ever after' still doesn't happen, to explain how she eventually resolved her issues and found that the mould, formed for her by her upbringing, was not set in stone and could be broken.

The first part of the book resonated a lot with me, as I was also playing the dating game at this time, the only difference being that I had already been married and had a family. I recognised many of the male types that she dated, having had some similar encounters, some funny, some heart-breaking or, on occasion, just plain boring! 

The second part moves on to the digital age, which I was not familiar with personally, but which didn't prove to be any more successful for the author in finding 'the right one'. Much more importantly though, the end of the noughties heralded a shift in society's view of the status of women and the expectations and acceptance of what constitutes a 'family'. The author could at last abandon her 'life plan' and fulfil her lifelong ambition to be a mother.

This is an uplifting book, that debunks the myth of the happy couple ending, perpetuated in literature and the film and TV industry. There's a long way to go yet, as the #MeToo movement shows but, in the author's own words 'Imagine how much happier and freer young women would feel if they had a deeply embedded notion of choice, of carving out their own unique path...that you don't need to wait for your Prince Charming, that you can create an extraordinary life just on your own'.

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Single, Again, and Again, and Again ... What Do You Do When Life Doesn't Go to Plan? Synopsis

Do you feel as if you'll never find the one?Are you sick of failed relationships? And are you seriously fed up with comments from friends and family hinting that you're getting old and need to settle down before it's too late?

At thirty-six years old, that's how author Louisa Pateman perceived her situation. She was constantly reminded of how her time was running out. Single, Again, and Again, and Again ... follows Pateman and her quest to find her happily ever after.

Convinced all the good men were taken, she continually reassessed her aspirations to accomplish her life plan. Feeling defeated after a string of failed relationships and frustrated with her inability to find her soulmate, she reexamined her priorities and played the cards she was dealt. Finding inner courage, she discovered ways to create extraordinary experiences despite her perceived failures.

Single, Again, and Again, and Again ... What Do You Do When Life Doesn't Go to Plan? Reader Reviews

In addition to our Lovereading expert opinion some of our Reader Review Panel were also lucky enough to read and review this title. You can click here to read the full reviews.

I feel really proud that the author is now happy with her life and I thank her for sharing her story in such an open and honest way. It is definitely a book that all young girls should read as she is an inspiration. Full review

Nicola Edwards

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ISBN: 9781504321389
Publication date: 23/04/2020
Publisher: Balboa Press Au
Format: Paperback

Book Information

ISBN: 9781504321389
Publication date: 23rd April 2020
Author: Louisa Pateman
Publisher: Balboa Press Au
Format: Paperback
Pagination: 224 pages
Genres: Biography / Autobiography, Indie Author Books, Indie Books We Love,
Categories: Memoirs,

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