Deep in the archives of the Bodleian Library lies a tattered scrap of paper with newlyweds' scribbles on it. It is a table, listing the qualities of a couple. One column reads 'Often says what he does not think', 'He does not show his feelings', 'He is a genius'; the other 'Never says what she does not think', 'She shows her feelings', 'She is a dunce'. The writing is Mary Anne Disraeli's: the qualities listed contrast her with her husband, Benjamin Disraeli, one of the foremost politicians of the Victorian age. The daughter of a sailor, on her second marriage and 12 years older than her husband, Mary Anne was highly eccentric, liable to misbehave and (worse still) overdressed for grand society dinners. Her beloved Diz was of Jewish descent, a mid-ranking novelist and frequently mired in debt. He was fiercely protective and completely devoted to his wife. She was devoted to him, too, and they were both devoted to the very idea of being devoted. They wrote passionate letters to one another through their courtship and their marriage, spinning their unusual tale into a romance worthy of the novels they so loved. Reading between the lines of a great cache of their letters and the anecdotes of others in chilly Oxford reading rooms, Daisy Hay shows how the Disraelis rose to the top of the social and political pile. Along the way, we meet women of a similar station and situation whose endings were far unhappier than Mary Anne's, acting as a counterpoint to her fairy tale ending as the landed Angel of the Prime Minister's House. In an age where first ladies are under ever-increasing pressure to perform and conform, Mr and Mrs Disraeli offers a portrait of one who refused to do either, in a society which demanded she do both.
Beloved of Queen Victoria, who created him Earl of Beaconsfield in 1876, Disraeli was twice prime minister, as well as a successful novelist, and an extraordinary and charismatic figure – to date, still the only prime minister of Jewish birth. Not the least extraordinary thing about him was his marriage to Mary Anne Lewis, which is the focus of this book. Mary Anne was twelve years older than Disraeli and married to someone else when she met him; nevertheless, theirs was to be a great, if puzzling, romance that endured until her death. As this excellent book shows, they were a perfect match, each as keen as the other to create their own romantic myth. Mary Anne was eccentric and quite often tactless, but she amused Queen Victoria with her sayings, and created a suitably stylish backdrop for Dizzy at opulent Hughenden Manor in Buckinghamshire.
Publication date: 08/01/2015
Publisher: Chatto & Windus an imprint of Vintage
|Publication date:||8th January 2015|
|Publisher:||Chatto & Windus an imprint of Vintage|
|Genres:||Biography / Autobiography, History,|
|Categories:||Biography: historical, political & military, Modern history to 20th century: c 1700 to c 1900,|
Daisy Hay was born in Oxford in 1981. She is the author of Young Romantics: The Shelleys, Byron and Other Tangled Lives, for which she was awarded the Rose Mary Crawshay Prize by the British Academy and highly commended by the John Llewellyn Rhys Prize. She has a BA and a PhD in English Literature from the University of Cambridge and an MA in Romantic and Sentimental Literature from the University of York. In 2009-10 she was the Alistair Horne Fellow at St Antony's College, Oxford and in 2010-12 she held a visiting scholarship at Wolfson College, Oxford. In 2012-13 she ...More About Daisy Hay